Friday, December 8, 2017

5 Fingering Techniques Every Lesbian Should Know

Porn portrays lesbian sex as mostly dildos and scissoring, but fingering is actually the most popular lesbian sexual practice, according to at least one sex survey. Since most lesbians enjoy fingering, it's important to know how to make it fun and pleasurable. The following are five fingering techniques that every lesbian should know.

Friday, December 1, 2017

10 Lesbian Oral Sex Tips and Tricks

 Oral sex is a sexual practice that most lesbian couples enjoy. In fact in one sex survey, lesbians rated oral sex as their favorite sexual activity. Like any sexual practice, however, a change of pacc is needed once in a awhile to  keep it fun and exciting. These ten tips and tricks wll help keep oral sex one of you and your lover's favorite things to do in bed.

Friday, November 17, 2017

Bi-Curious? 5 Tips for Your First Lesbian Date

Have you ever been curious about what it's really like to date a woman? Lots of women have fantasies about sleeping with another woman, but a night of hot lesbian love is different from actually dating another woman. Here are some things to think about and some tips for your first lesbian date.

Friday, November 10, 2017

10 Lesbian Breast and Nipple Play Tips

 A woman's breasts are one of her primary erogenous zones. They are so erotically sensitive, in fact, that some women can even achieve orgasm from breast and nipple stimulation alone! These ten tips for breast and nipple play may not trigger a nipple orgasm, but even if they don't, they will be sexy and fun for both you and your lover.

Friday, November 3, 2017

5 Kinky Ideas for Hotter Lesbian Sex

Sex doesn't need to be exciting all of the time, but it does need to be exciting some of the time. Otherwise, it becomes boring, which is the death of any sexual relationship. Trying new techniques is one way to spice up sex, but another way is to push your sexual  boundaries a bit and get out of your comfort zone. The word kinky refers to unusual sexual behavior, but unusual doesn't necessarily mean bad. These five kinky ideas for hotter lesbian sex are not harmful, or even weird, but they can certainly add some excitement to your sex life.

Friday, October 27, 2017

3 Amazing Lesbian Oral Sex Techniques

Because every woman has different degrees of sensitivity in her erogenous zones, there is no single, one-size-fits-all method for oral sex (or any other sex act). That said, most women love these three amazing oral sex techniques. They are both easy to perform and highly pleasurable for your lover.

Friday, October 20, 2017

4 Steps to Picking Up a Girl If You Are a Girl

 As a newly-out bisexual or lesbian girl, the idea of meeting girls and asking them out can seem a bit intimidating. Although the fear of rejection is real, the possibility of a fulfilling relationship should be much more important. Being turned down is no fun, but being lonely is worse. If you're ready to change your status, here are four steps to meeting a girl and asking her out.

Friday, October 13, 2017

5 Ways to Find a Lesbian Girlfriend

Finding a lesbian girlfriend can be challenging. Not only do you have to find a woman you like, she also has to be lesbian. Although more women than you might think are open to a lesbian fling, not all of them are ready or willing to enter into a lesbian relationship. Fortunately, there are several ways to meet other lesbians who are also looking for love.

Friday, October 6, 2017

Lesbian Oral Sex: 4 Sexy Warm-Up Moves

The most often repeated sex advice is that "every woman is different."  One thing that is true of every woman, however, is that she needs time to get turned on. Even though your lover is undoubtedly already turned on before you go down on her, these four oral sex warm-up moves will help to take her to the next level.

Friday, September 29, 2017

Two Sex Acts Only Lesbians Can Perform

Sexual orientation is not determined so much by what you do but by who you do it with. Both opposite and same sex couples can perform manual and oral sex. Lesbians can even have sexual intercourse with the aid of a strap-on dildo. However, for lesbians who want to do something exclusively lesbian with their lovers, here are two sex acts that only two women can do with each other.

Friday, September 22, 2017

5 Ways to Love Her From Behind

Although women enjoy making love face to face,  lovemaking from behind also has its own charms. When you approach your lover from behind, she cannot see exactly what you are up to. This builds anticipation as she wonders what you're going to do next. It also allows her to focus more just on the physical sensations she is enjoying. These are five of the best ways to love her from behind.

Friday, September 15, 2017

6 Hot Lesbian Oral Sex Techniques

Anything can get boring after awhile if you keep doing the same thing over and over again. That even holds true for oral sex. If you go down on your lover the same way every time, eventually your lover will find it less exciting and pleasurable. Women like a variety of sensations, and these six oral sex techniques can satisfy that desire.

Friday, September 8, 2017

How to Give Your Lover a Sensual Butt Massage

Your lover's butt is one of the sexiest parts of her body, not only to look at, but also to touch. The gluteus maximus, the main muscle that gives each buttock its round shape, is one of the largest muscles of the body, which means that it loves being massaged. You can incorporate butt massage into a full-body erotic massage, use it as preparation for anal play, or just make it a treat by itself.

Friday, September 1, 2017

The G-Spot Orgasm: How to Make Your Lover Squirt

Female ejaculation used to be dismissed as a myth, but the scientific community was proven wrong in 1980 when John D. Perry and Beverly Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the Society for the Scientific Study of Sex. Female ejaculate is a fluid released from the G-spot area. It is usually clear, or milky and as thin as water. The secret to female ejaculation is G-spot stimulation to orgasm.

Saturday, August 26, 2017

Lesbian Sex Secrets Blogiversary!

Today is the first blogiverary of Lesbian Sex Secrets!  In the past year, I have published 69 articles in eight different categories.  As far as I can tell, this blog has the best collection of lesbian sex and relationship advice articles on the internet.

The most popular articles this past year has been Two Lesbian Fingering Techniques That Will Drive Your Lover Crazy . tionAt number six (appropriately enough) is my personal favorite How to Seduce a Straight Girl in 6 Easy Steps. There is plenty more to come, so stay tuned!

Friday, August 25, 2017

8 Lesbian Anal Fingering Techniques to Make Your Lover Orgasm

Anal fingering is a great way for you to give your lover pleasurable anal orgasms. The reason why you can give her orgasms through anal fingering is due to the fact that her vagina and her anus canal are only separated by a thin membrane. This allows your lover to feel the your fingers stimulate indirectly her G-spot and maybe even the back of her deep spot.

Friday, August 18, 2017

Lesbian Tribbing: the 3 Best Positions for Mutual Orgasm

Tribadism or tribbing is a sexual practice in which a woman rubs her vulva against her female lover's body for sexual stimulation. Tribbing may involve one woman rubbing her vulva against her lover's thigh, butt, or other body part or direct vulva-to-vulva contact. There numerous tribbing positions, but not all allow for mutual orgasm. Mutual orgasm should not be confused with simultaneous orgasm. Mutual orgasm in this case means that both women can receive sufficient sexual stimulation to have an orgasm in that position without switching places.

Friday, August 11, 2017

3 Things Women LOVE About Lesbian Sex

More than ever women are discovering that they can have amazing sex with another woman. Besties with benefits, the trend of straight women having sex with each other, has become so popular that Cosmo had published an article about it. So, what is it about lesbian sex that makes it such a hit with women? Although great sex depends more on the person than the gender, there are three things that women love about lesbian sex.

Friday, August 4, 2017

5 Sex Positions for Lesbian Couples Who Want To Spice Things Up

The truth is that when you’ve been with someone for a few years, exciting sex can easily fall by the wayside. After awhile, you’re doing the same old thing once or twice a week as if to fulfill some sort of sexual quota, rather than to enjoy moments of passion with your lover. An easy way to combat sexual boredom is to try new sex positions. These five positions are great for lesbian couples who want to spice things up in the bedroom.

Friday, July 28, 2017

5 Ways to Let a Girl Know You Like Girls

Let's say you've met a cute girl somewhere, but you don't know whether she is gay or straight. You could just ask her, of course, or tell her that you're interested in a gay way. However, if that's a bit too bold and direct for you, here are five subtle ways to let a girl know that you like girls.

Friday, July 21, 2017

Lesbian Sex: 5 Techniques for Achieving Multiple Orgasms

While it’s true that too much of a good can sometimes be bad, that doesn't go for orgasms. If one is good, having two, three, or four is even better. Multiple orgasms means having more than one c.imax during a single lovemaking session, which could mean within minutes, hours, or the entire evening. All women are capable of having multiple orgasms. If you want to give it a try, using these five techniques one you reach your first orgasm can often lead to having more than one.

Friday, July 14, 2017

Bi-Curious? What Is Going Down on Another Woman Really Like?

If you are are a bi-curious woman who is considering going to bed with another woman, you may have questions about the topic of performing oral sex on her. Will she expect it? What will she smell and taste like "down there?" What if you're really bad at it, and she doesn't like it and doesn't have an orgasm?

These are natural questions to have because, after all, you haven.t ever gone down on a woman. To answer the first question, will she expect it? Not necessarily, but if she goes down on you (and how could she resist), She may be a bit frustrated if you don't reciprocate. You will probably want to also, especially if she made you feel really good. So, in case the situation arises, what is going down on another woman really like?

Monday, July 3, 2017

7 Ways to Tell if You Are Really Bi-Curious

Bi-curious describes a person who identifies as straight, but wonders what it would be like to participate in sexual activity with someone of the same sex. Nearly all of us can appreciate a gorgeous woman, but do your thoughts ever wander a little further than how nice she looks? To determine if you might be a bi-curious woman, let's look at seven signs that indicate yo want to do more than just admire a sexy female.

Monday, June 26, 2017

Besties With Benefits: 3 Reasons Straight Women Are Having Sex With Each Other

Straight women having sex with each other seems to be a growing trend. The "besties with benefits" phenomenon has become so popular that Cosmo published an article about it. What's going on? Is it fluoride in the water, chemtrails, or something else? Although you can never really be sure what motivates someone to switch up their sexual preferences, there seem to be three main reasons that straight women are experimenting with lesbian sex.

Friday, June 23, 2017

The Best Lesbian Breast Kissing Techniques

Breasts are not only a symbol of femininity, but also a key erogenous zone. A study found that when a woman’s nipples are stimulated, the sensation travels to the same part of the brain as when her vagina and clitoris are aroused. That means that every woman can potentially become highly aroused from breast play, and these breast kissing techniques will do just that.

Friday, June 16, 2017

Lesbian Oral Sex: How To Tongue Her Vagina

When giving their lovers oral sex, many women stick to licking the clitoris only. They know that licking the clitoris can produce an intense orgasm, so they stay with the tried and true. However, if you’re feeling a bit naughty and want your lover to have a really mind-blowing orgasm, tonguing her vagina can take oral sex to the next level. Tongue thrusting is an oral sex technique that your lover may never have had used on her, so that makes it exciting all by itself.

Friday, June 9, 2017

Is She a Lesbian? 10 Signs That She Isn't Straight

Let's say you've run into a cute girl somewhere. In fact, she's not just cute, but she's exactly your type.  So, how do you find out if you're her type? In other words, is she gay or straight? If your "gaydar" is on the fritz, here are ten signs that can tell you whether you have a shot with her.

Friday, June 2, 2017

How to Give Your Lover an Erotic Spanking

Erotic spanking is the act of spanking another person for the sexual arousal or gratification of on or both partners. Spanking can be sexy fun, and a majority of women have fantasies about being spanked.  If your lover is one of these women, giving her an erotic spanking can be exciting for both of you.

Friday, May 26, 2017

A Beginner's Guide to Lesbian Tribbing

Tribadism (tribbing) is usually defined either as two women rubbing their vulvas together for sexual stimulation, or alternatively as one woman rubbing her vulva against another woman's thigh, stomach, buttocks, arm, or other body part (except the mouth). A study from 2003 that surveyed more than 1,200 bisexual and lesbian women found that only 50 percent of them had participated in genital-to-genital touching; however, if they had included the second part of the definition, the percentage would probably have been much higher.

Friday, May 19, 2017

5 Ways to Make Lesbian Sex Even Sexier

Lesbian sex is plenty sexy to begin with, but that doesn't mean that a little tweaking can't make it better. If you want to turn up the heat in the bedroom, these five ways to make lesbian sex even sexier are sure to spice things up between you and your lover.

Friday, May 12, 2017

Kegel Exercises: The Secret to Intense Orgasms

Did you know that doing Kegel exercises is the secret to more intense orgasms? Since the pelvic floor muscles are the muscles that surround the vaginal opening and contract rhythmically during orgasm, it is not surprising that sex therapists emphasize the importance of the PC muscles in the orgasmic response. Several benefits of a strong pelvic floor are well accepted.

Friday, May 5, 2017

10 Lesbian Sex Positions You and Your Lover Need to Try

If you're bored with your “normal” sexual routine, but not sure of what you can do to spice it up, a change of position may be in order. Some may believe that lesbian sex can really occur in a few positions, but those people in particular could benefit from this list. The truth is, there are hundreds of possible positions to get into with your lover, and if you’re not using many of them, it’s no wonder you’re bored. Take a look at the ten lesbian sex positions that should be added to your repertoire immediately!

Friday, April 28, 2017

3 Great Sex Techniques to Make Your Lover Orgasm

Are you and your lover in a sexual rut? When it comes to making your lover orgasm, you need to know a variety of sex techniques. It isn’t enough to simply learn one or two different ways to make your lover climax. You need a repertoire of sex techniques that you can use to lead her to sexual bliss. These three are tried and tested way to give women sexual pleasure.

Friday, April 21, 2017

How to Give Your Lover a Sensual Erotic Massage

Everyone loves getting a massage. It relaxes the body, stimulates circulation, and feels great. The only thing that tops a massage is a sensual erotic massage. It's a great way for you and your lover to have a sexy time together and make her feel good. You don't need to be a massage therapist, either, to give a sexual erotic massage. Just follow the steps below.

Friday, April 14, 2017

8 Lesbian Foreplay Tips to Drive Your Lover Wild With Desire

Foreplay is an essential ingredient of a satisfying sexual encounter. The build-up of sexual tension is not only part of the fun of lovemaking, but it also gives both of you time to relax and get out of your heads and into your bodies. Here are eight tips to help you get more from foreplay and drive your lover wild with desire.

Friday, April 7, 2017

10 Tips for Lesbian Breast Play

Although breasts are considered a secondary sex characteristic, many women have a stronger emotional connection to their breasts than even their genitals. Likewise, when it comes to sex, everybody relates differently to breast stimulation. Some women like it gentle. Others don't get excited until you start getting rough. One thing that most women have in common, though, is wanting their lovers to give their breasts some attention during lovemaking. Here are ten tips for lesbian breast play:

Friday, March 31, 2017

How to Give Your Lover an Anal Massage

Erotic massage or sensual massage is the use of massage techniques to achieve or enhance sexual arousal. Your skin is the largest organ of the body with thousands of nerve endings, and touch stimulates all of your senses. The anal region has many nerve endings and if your lover is willing to explore some touch in that area, it can be a wonderful addition to erotic massage.

Friday, March 24, 2017

10 Lesbian Flirting Tips

Trying to flirt with another woman can be a little nervous-making, especially if you're new to the lesbian scene, but reflecting on how you felt when someone flirted with you should boost your confidence. As long as they were nice, you probably felt flattered even if you weren't interested in the person doing the flirting. Women you flirt with will more than likely feel the same way, so just muster up your courage and give it a try. Here are ten tips to help get you started flirting with bi-curious, bisexual, or lesbian women:

Friday, March 17, 2017

6 Orgasmic Lesbian Sex Positions

Women sometimes underestimate how much changing sex positions can spice up their love lives. It not only provides variety, but also different sensations. Both of these can increase the level of sexual excitement, and more sexual excitement usually equals more orgasms. These six lesbian sex positions are a great way to turn up the heat in the bedroom.

Friday, March 10, 2017

Lesbian Oral Sex: 5 Reasons to Suck Your Lover's Clitoris

If you are a lesbian, you probably already lick your lover, but an oral sex technique often overlooked is combining your lips and tongue to actually suck on the clitoris. Porn star Nina Hartley once said, "Licking sucks and sucking rocks!" While that may be an overstatement, you should definitely supplement your licking with some sucking. Here are five reasons to suck on your lover's clitoris. (For some how-to, see my article, 5 Oral Sex Techniques for Clitoral Stimulation.)

Friday, March 3, 2017

6 Steps to Giving Your Lover a Powerful Orgasm With Your Hands

Manual stimulation of the vulva, and in particular the clitoris, is the most common way for a woman achieve an orgasm, so giving your lover an orgasm with your hands ought to be easy. After all, you've probably given yourself one, but what you like may not be the same as what another woman likes. However, there are several techniques that the majority of woman like. If you follow the six steps below, you will give your lover so much erotic pleasure that she is almost sure to have a powerful orgasm.

Friday, February 24, 2017

5 Ways to Make Your Lover Better at Going Down on You

Almost all women love receiving oral sex, but not every woman is good at giving it. Just being a woman doesn't make you an expert at going down on another woman. If your lover is a bit below par in the oral department, here are five ways to make your lover better at going down on you. Remember that she is down there because she wants to please you, so help her to help you feel good.

Friday, February 17, 2017

3 Lesbian Breast Play Techniques That Will Turn Your Lover On

A woman's breasts are not only a symbol of her femininity, but also one of her most highly erogenous zones. Women vary in how sensitive their breasts are and how much they like them stimulated during lovemaking, but a majority say they would like their lovers to spend more time with breast play. You can satisfy that desire with these three breast play techniques that are easy to do and sure to turn your lover on.

Friday, February 10, 2017

Two Lesbian Fingering Techniques That Will Drive Your Lover Crazy

If there is one surefire way to give your lover sexual pleasure, it is by fingering her. Your fingers can give you complete control over how you stimulate her, and since you have five fingers and two hands, an almost infinite variety of ways to do it. Whether used as foreplay or the main event of your sex session, these two lesbian fingering techniques will drive your lover crazy with passion

Friday, February 3, 2017

How to Seduce a Straight Girl in 6 Easy Steps

Are you a lesbian with a crush on a straight girl? A recent study discovered that a majority of women are sexually attracted to other women. That means your chances of getting your crush into bed are actually pretty good. Not a sure thing by any means, but definitely not out of the question. Making a pass at her right away, though, is almost certainly out of the question. Following these six steps instead will get you to the point where you can make that pass with a good chance of it being well-received.

Friday, January 27, 2017

Lesbian Tribbing: 4 Fun Positions to Try

Tribadism, aka tribbing, comes from a Greek word meaning “rubbing bodies together.” This is something that lovers naturally do, but tribbing emphasizes genital contact. The most popular tribbing position is undoubtedly missionary: one of you lies on your back, the other lies on top of her, and the fun begins. Using different positions provides new sensations, though, so give these four positions a try. They are fun and pleasurable, and one of them may become a new favorite!

Friday, January 20, 2017

The 10 Best Lesbian Cuddling Positions

Cuddling is one of the best ways to show affection and increase intimacy with your lover. Cuddling releases a hormone that reduces anxiety and stress, so it increases your mental well-being as well. Cuddling goes way beyond spooning (although spooning made the list, of course), so here are the ten best lesbian cuddling positions to explore.

Friday, January 13, 2017

Ab Exercise for More Powerful Orgasms

You've probably know about clitoral orgasms and vaginal orgasms, but what about "core-gasms?" Core-gams are female orgasms induced by core exercises, and women have been reporting having them when doing their gym workouts. Whether or not you ever have a core-gasm in the gym, if you really want to improve your orgasms, you need to start working your abs.

Friday, January 6, 2017

Lesbian Oral Sex: 5 Finger Techniques to Make It Even Better


Oral sex is mainly about the mouth and tongue, but that doesn't mean you should adopt a hands-off policy when going down on your lover. Skillful fingers work quite well to help build the sexual tension that will be released with orgasm. Adding these five finger techniques to your oral sex repertoire will add to your lover's pleasure.