1) Visit a gay or lesbian bar.
Even in conservative areas, most medium-sized cities have at least one gay bar. Ask around or search online. You may even find a lesbian bar in larger cities. Although gay bars tend to attract more men, they sometimes have lesbian nights.
2) Date online.
Dating websites and apps are extremely popular ways to meet. Gay or lesbian-only dating sites exist, but you're not limited to those. Most dating for heterosexuals also allow you to limit your search to same-sex members.
3) Attend LGBT events.
If you live in an LGBT-friendly area, or even if you don't, you can attend nearby gay and lesbian social events. These can range from bar nights to casual social meet-ups to pride parades. Search for them on meetup.com, social media, or on general search engines.
4) Make friends in the LGBT community.
If you attended an LGBT event and met the love of your life, congratulations. You were lucky. For everyone else, take the long-term approach and develop friendships in your local LGBT community. Since the dating pool is not the largest, you will probably see many of the same faces at different events, but the good thing about that is that you'll become part of a supportive community.
5) Spend more time on your favorite social activities.
When you throw yourself into social activities or hobbies you enjoy, your enthusiasm will attract others who share your interests. Many a lesbian couple first met on a women's softball team or while volunteering at an animal shelter, but you shouldn't limit yourself to these stereotypical activities. Any social activity or hobby that is popular with women provides a good opportunity to meet. Ms. Right.
One thing that should be apparent is that you won't find a lesbian girlfriend sitting at home watching Netflix. You will need to get out of the house and take part in social activities. That's a good thing to do even if you're not looking for a new relationship, and it's a fun way to find one if you are.
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