Friday, August 25, 2017

8 Lesbian Anal Fingering Techniques to Make Your Lover Orgasm

Anal fingering is a great way for you to give your lover pleasurable anal orgasms. The reason why you can give her orgasms through anal fingering is due to the fact that her vagina and her anus canal are only separated by a thin membrane. This allows your lover to feel the your fingers stimulate indirectly her G-spot and maybe even the back of her deep spot.

During anal fingering, use plenty of silicone-based lubricant. Go slowly and gently, using your smaller finger first and building your way up to your middle finger. Communicate with your lover, and stop if she says it hurts. Now, let’s move on to the anal fingering techniques:

1) See-Saw

The see-saw is a simple move that will get your lover warmed up. Put your hands together flat, palms touching, and place the outer edge between her butt cheeks, over her anus and perineum. With an up-and-down sawing motion, rub this very sensitive spot to stimulate and relax her muscles.

2) Teeter Totter

Using the same exact position as the see=saw, wiggle your hands back and forth at the wrist as you slide up and down this area. Add extra lube to make her good and slick, and to prepare for entering her rear passage.

3) Twiddling Your Thumbs

Using the knuckles of each hand to spread her butt cheeks apart a bit, slowly circle your thumbs around each other so that the pads touch the anus as they pass. Use lots of lube and increase your speed if she responds well.

4) Making Your Entrance

When your lover’s level of arousal tells you that she is ready for more, use a well-lubricated index or middle finger to put slow, gentle, pressure on her anus. Don’t push, just apply steady pressure and allow her to suck you in past the first sphincter. Stop at this point and let her adjust to this new and different sensation. Then tell her to breathe deeply, to relax and to focus on contracting and releasing her pelvic floor muscles, particularly those in her anus.

5)The Waiting Room

With your finger between the two anal sphincters, you have the perfect opportunity to stop and let your lover get comfortable and adjust to the sensation of having you inside her in this way. If she finds it too strange, you can exit and go again with a bit more lube until she starts to get used to the feelingt.

When she’s ready to accept you further, you can put the same gentle pressure on her second sphincter, just an inch or two away from the first. Here again, you need to be accepted in, and it may be more difficult to coax the inner doorway, since it is not consciously controlled. She can’t just relax on command here.

Just remain still, applying pressure, and wait. If she doesn’t open up for you, take the hint. Move on to something else and come back again another day.

6) Check The Clock

The clock face is an easy way to visualize just about any erogenous zone when it comes time to explore its idiosyncrasies. In the same way that you can explore the vulva and the clitoris, beyond the second anal sphincter lies a space which you can explore in this same roundabout way.

Press along the outer edge of the rectum with your finger, stopping to make small circles at each hour. Communicate to your lover what you’re doing and ask for her feedback. If she remembers to, it will help you to memorize which spots are her favorites.

7) Hit The Spot

At about three inches into your lover's anal canal, you can crook your finger toward her vagina for indirect access to her G-spot. Massaging that spot with  a “come hither” motion might result in a G-Spot orgasm!

8) The Five-Finger Surprise

With one hand in the position above, stimulating your lover's G spot from her anus, crook the thumb of the same hand into her vagina, pressing against the rear wall and perineum. You can start to make "come hither" motions with your finger immediately, or you can wait until your other hand is in position.

With your other hand, insert your index and middle fingers into her vagina and stimulate the G spot and deep spot. You can also place the pad of your thumb on her clitoris, and rock this second hand back and forth, thereby stimulating her entire labia.

If you have trouble making these different motions at the same time, alternate on one hand with the other. Find a rhythm that works, and use it to take your lover all the way to climax.

As you can imagine, all of these anal fingering techniques are very pleasurable for her. If you master them, you’ll be able to give her anal orgasms. You will also be increasing the physical and emotional intimacy between you and your lover.

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