Friday, March 10, 2017

Lesbian Oral Sex: 5 Reasons to Suck Your Lover's Clitoris

If you are a lesbian, you probably already lick your lover, but an oral sex technique often overlooked is combining your lips and tongue to actually suck on the clitoris. Porn star Nina Hartley once said, "Licking sucks and sucking rocks!" While that may be an overstatement, you should definitely supplement your licking with some sucking. Here are five reasons to suck on your lover's clitoris. (For some how-to, see my article, 5 Oral Sex Techniques for Clitoral Stimulation.)

1) Clitoral engorgement is faster.

The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings all located in a tiny area.  When it is stimulated, blood rushes to it, and the clitoris becomes engorged and very sensitive.  When you suck on the clitoris (as opposed to just licking), it speeds up the engorgement process and causes the clitoris to become more sensitive more quickly.

2) Sucking provides a different sensation.

Variety is just as important! in oral sex as it is in any sexual activity. When you use different techniques, it increases your lover's pleasure.  Adding sucking to your repertoire is a sure-fire way to get her writhing beneath you and begging for more!  If you are usually a “licker.” sucking will provide a different sensation and ultimately feel more intense for her.

3) It is extremely pleasurable!

Having your clitoris sucked on feels wonderful!  While all women prefer different amounts of pressure when it comes to clitoral stimulation, the act of sucking on the clitoris (whether lightly or with more pressure) feels amazing, especially if you  use the “suck and release” technique of clitoral sucking.

4) It speeds up orgasm.

While a light touch on her clitoris can definitely bring your lover pleasure and turn her on, sucking on her clitoris is more likely to elicit an orgasm!  Although sucking is not a guarantee for orgasm, the pleasure it gives is likely to speed up your lover's sexual arousal.

5) It can help with achieving orgasm in general.

Not every woman reacts to clitoral stimulation of any kind the same way, and some even have some difficulty achieving orgasm through oral stimulation.  Clitoral sucking can sometimes help a woman to achieve orgasm even if she usually experiences difficulty reaching climax.  The direct stimulation combined with the clitoral engorgement and the difference in sensation that can’t be reproduced in any other way makes clitoral sucking extremely effective for inducing orgasm in women who don't achieve orgasm easily or often.

As with any technique you're trying for the first time, start out soft and slow! Pay attention to your lover’s reaction to this move. Most women love it, but if she seems to be shrinking away, lighten up on the suction or discontinue sucking her clitoris altogether.

My book Lesbian Sex Secrets: How to Have Amazing Sex With Another Woman aims to help bi-curious, bisexual, and lesbian women take their sex lives to another level. To give your lover  the best sex she’s ever had, starting tonight, click here!

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