A woman's breasts are one of her primary erogenous zones. They are so erotically sensitive, in fact, that some women can even achieve orgasm from breast and nipple stimulation alone! These ten tips for breast and nipple play may not trigger a nipple orgasm, but even if they don't, they will be sexy and fun for both you and your lover.
1) Caressing
Using both palms fingers facing outward, caress your lover from her stomach all the way up to the bottom of her breasts. Then trace the outline of her breasts in a circular motion with your finger until you reach her collarbone.
2) Pulling.
Rest your hands on the cup of your lover's breasts while leaving your thumb and index finger free to play with her nipples. Starting from the base of her nipple, draw her nipple out in a pulling motion applying decreasing pressure as you let it slip from your fingers.
3) Pinching
Nipple pinching is an acquired taste for some women who may not think they would like it at first. So if you’re introducing pinching to nipple play, start with light pressure only, and then gradually work your way to her pain-pleasure threshold.
4) Scratching.
Use the tip of your fingernails to lightly trace lines over the skin of your lover's breasts all the way to areola and nipples. As you reach the center, make your touch lighter. If you see goose bumps on her skin, you’re doing it right.
5) Squeezing
Gently massage your lover's breasts in circular fashion with your hands , and then squeeze them harder. Do not press too hard at first. Watch her reaction to know if you should intensify the pressure or keep it the same.
6) Blowing.
Blowing gives your lover a sense of being touched without touching her at all. Lightly blowing on her breasts stimulates the tiny hairs on the skin. Do this by slightly opening your mouth over her nipple and exhaling, or lightly blowing lines over her breasts.
7) Kissing.
A kiss on your lover's breasts registers the sensation of soft, warm, and slightly moist lips that she’ll be sure to love. Start with short pecks on her "underboob" and work your way up with longer and deeper kisses until you reach her nipples. My article The Best Lesbian Breast Kissing Techniques goes into more detail about this technique.
8) Licking.
Licking start wet and warm, but then cools off as the saliva evaporates from your lover's skin. There are many ways to lick her breasts, but a good way to start is to focus on tracing circles around her areola with the tip of your tongue…
9) Sucking.
Sucking is warm, moist, and silky with the texture of the inside of your mouth along with the pulling sensation. The mixture of these sensations makes nipple sucking a favorite for many women.
10) Nibbling
Use your teeth to gently give her tiny bites on her breasts and nipples. Biting can be pleasurable or painful to your lover, so take your cues from her about how hard to bite.
All of these techniques are pleasurable to some women some of the time but of course, not to all women all of the time. Sensitivity does vary, so try out any techniques that you don't already do and see how it goes. You may find one that becomes a new favorite.
My book Lesbian Sex Secrets: How to Have Amazing Sex With Another Woman aims to help bi-curious, bisexual, and lesbian women take their sex lives to another level. To give your lover the best sex she’s ever had, starting tonight, click here!
1) Caressing
Using both palms fingers facing outward, caress your lover from her stomach all the way up to the bottom of her breasts. Then trace the outline of her breasts in a circular motion with your finger until you reach her collarbone.
2) Pulling.
Rest your hands on the cup of your lover's breasts while leaving your thumb and index finger free to play with her nipples. Starting from the base of her nipple, draw her nipple out in a pulling motion applying decreasing pressure as you let it slip from your fingers.
3) Pinching
Nipple pinching is an acquired taste for some women who may not think they would like it at first. So if you’re introducing pinching to nipple play, start with light pressure only, and then gradually work your way to her pain-pleasure threshold.
4) Scratching.
Use the tip of your fingernails to lightly trace lines over the skin of your lover's breasts all the way to areola and nipples. As you reach the center, make your touch lighter. If you see goose bumps on her skin, you’re doing it right.
5) Squeezing
Gently massage your lover's breasts in circular fashion with your hands , and then squeeze them harder. Do not press too hard at first. Watch her reaction to know if you should intensify the pressure or keep it the same.
6) Blowing.
Blowing gives your lover a sense of being touched without touching her at all. Lightly blowing on her breasts stimulates the tiny hairs on the skin. Do this by slightly opening your mouth over her nipple and exhaling, or lightly blowing lines over her breasts.
7) Kissing.
A kiss on your lover's breasts registers the sensation of soft, warm, and slightly moist lips that she’ll be sure to love. Start with short pecks on her "underboob" and work your way up with longer and deeper kisses until you reach her nipples. My article The Best Lesbian Breast Kissing Techniques goes into more detail about this technique.
8) Licking.
Licking start wet and warm, but then cools off as the saliva evaporates from your lover's skin. There are many ways to lick her breasts, but a good way to start is to focus on tracing circles around her areola with the tip of your tongue…
9) Sucking.
Sucking is warm, moist, and silky with the texture of the inside of your mouth along with the pulling sensation. The mixture of these sensations makes nipple sucking a favorite for many women.
10) Nibbling
Use your teeth to gently give her tiny bites on her breasts and nipples. Biting can be pleasurable or painful to your lover, so take your cues from her about how hard to bite.
All of these techniques are pleasurable to some women some of the time but of course, not to all women all of the time. Sensitivity does vary, so try out any techniques that you don't already do and see how it goes. You may find one that becomes a new favorite.
My book Lesbian Sex Secrets: How to Have Amazing Sex With Another Woman aims to help bi-curious, bisexual, and lesbian women take their sex lives to another level. To give your lover the best sex she’s ever had, starting tonight, click here!
1 comment:
thx for the tips - pun intended ;) it's interesting to actually SEE the action verbs associated with breast play - posted. interesting because i i've clearly neglected a couple(e.g., scratching and blowing). to some extent, we can become... complacent (not sure if that's the right word) in our lovemaking and that is surely not tolerable :) again - thx!
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