5 Kinky Ideas for Hotter Lesbian Sex

Sex doesn't need to be exciting all of the time, but it does need to be exciting some of the time. Otherwise, it becomes boring, which is the death of any sexual relationship. Trying new techniques is one way to spice up sex, but another way is to push your sexual  boundaries a bit and get out of your comfort zone. The word kinky refers to unusual sexual behavior, but unusual doesn't necessarily mean bad. These five kinky ideas for hotter lesbian sex are not harmful, or even weird, but they can certainly add some excitement to your sex life.

1) Try new sex positions

Trying new sex positions is about the mildest form of sexual experimentation. Most couples do it at least occasionally, but many women underestimate how much it can help keep sex exciting. Changing fingering or oral sex positions can be a turn-on because it provides different sensations from a familiar act.

2) Experiment with tribbing.

Like trying new sex positions, experimenting with tribbing is more mild than wild. Most lesbian couples rub and grin against each other in bed. To add some kink, you can try scissoring, tribbing from behind, or tribbing to mutual orgasm. (Tribbing, by the way, is one of two sex acts only lesbians can perform.)

3) Explore the back door.

Anal play begins to push the sexual boundaries a bit more. Done right, it's quite pleasurable. Anal fingering is definitely the way to start. Eventually, you may want to try giving your lover an anal massage.

4) BDSM, anyone?

Almost everyone considers bondage dominance, and sado-masochism (BDSM) to be kinky. If you want to go there, an erotic spanking is a mild introduction to the world of BDSM. You might try experimenting with restraints, such as ropes, handcuffs, blindfolds, and gags. You can tip toe into dominance and soda-masochism by role playing dominatrix and sub, dyke-femme, or other sexual fantasies that you or your lover may have.

5) Have a threesome.

Bringing a third woman into your bed is not something most couples do, but it can be an unforgettable experience. You can find a third wheel on a dating site, at a gay or lesbian bar, or you can even invite a friend. Wherever you find her, putting three women in bed together can make for the hottest sex imaginable.

Of course, you don't necessarily have to go from mild to wild. You can stick with mild or go straight to wild. Just pick something that sounds sexy and give it a try. You may end wondering why you never tried it before.

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