First-Time Lesbian Oral Sex

Giving oral sex to another woman is one of the great pleasures of being a lesbian. Nothing feels as intimate as putting your mouth on another woman’s genitals. If it’s your first time having oral sex with a woman, don’t be afraid to let her know you’ve never done it before. Let her know you’re eager to try it, but not quite sure of what to do.

Make sure you spend some time getting her turned on before heading south. Kiss her and caress her breasts. Press your bodies close together and bump and grind. When you’re both ready, pull down her pants. Then go ahead and kiss her on the outside of her panties before you take them off.

Slowly lick up her thighs and kiss her vulva. Then spread her legs and open her lips with your fingers. Start very slowly. Kiss her outside labia and gently lick from her opening to her clitoris with your tongue as broad and flat as you can make it. Then drop back down, and repeat until her juices flow. Use gentle strokes to begin with. As her excitement builds, you can add more pressure and focus more on the area around her clitoris. Put your hands under her butt and gently lift her towards your mouth.

As she becomes aroused, take her clitoris into your mouth. Suck gently and then release. Gentle flicking of the clitoris with you tongue can send her over the edge. Dip your tongue inside her vagina and if she likes it, insert a finger or two.

With your face buried between your lover's thighs, it may be hard to see what her response is, so feel for the clues. If she raises her hips to meet your mouth, that is good. If her vagina gets wet her vulva swells, she's getting turned on. If she starts to moan and tremble, keep doing whatever you're doing. Rapid breathing and writhing around are also good signs. If she grabs your head and pulls you closer, things are definitely going well.

Oral sex is a skill that you can improve with practice. The best thing to do is to experiment, do what feels natural to you, and look for cues from your partner. If you're not sure, just go ahead and ask her. The best lovers are the ones who listen to their partners and have self-confidence without being cocky. (For more about first-time lesbian sex, see my article 10 Tips for Great First-Time Lesbian Sex.)

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