Have her get comfortable in a reclined position, her legs open. Make sure that you kiss, suck, and lick her thighs, her navel and all of the areas around her vulva. Do not make premature contact with her vulva. As she slowly becomes more aroused, continue teasing her with your tongue and lips and slowly massage her vulva.
When she is ready, position your head so that it is perpendicular to her body. Place two fingers on either side of the hood of her clitoris and slowly run your tongue back and forth, and over and under the hood. In other words, your head should be at a 90 degree angle to her, and you will be licking up and down, but because you are perpendicular, your tongue will travel from side to side.
Place the flat of your thumb or finger on her perineum – the area of skin between the anus and the vulva - and gently apply pressure without moving. The pressure on the perineum stimulates the anal sphincter muscles, which are the strongest muscles involved in female orgasm and really heighten the pleasure. Many women experience a deeper orgasm from the connection they feel between their clitoris and their perineum.
Continue stimulating her clitoral hood, slowly increasing your speed. As you feel her nearing orgasm, transfer your tongue to the head of her clitoris. Continue to stimulate and hold her while she climaxes. Let her enjoy herself and continue to stimulate her until she lets you know you can stop.
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