5 First-Time Lesbian Fingering Techniques

Many, if not most women, have masturbated by fingering themselves. That's probably why fingering another woman doesn't seem as intimidating to first-time lesbian lovers as giving oral does. Been there, done that - sort of. Even so, fingering another woman is different than fingering yourself - thankfully - but it's just as good a way to give your lover an orgasm as it is to give yourself one. These five easy fingering techniques will help you give your lover a hand when you are in bed together.

Panties Play

Once she is really turned on, move your hand slowly down her lower stomach and onto her panties. Slowly rub her vulva s through her panties to tease her. As you rub, continue kissing her until you can feel that her panties are becoming wet. Only then should you put your hand inside her panties or pull them down..

The Clitoris Rub

This is your bread-and-butter fingering technique. It's a very common and straightforward way by which she can reach an orgasm, With your lubricated fingertips start slowly rubbing her clitoris. You can also try circular motions, soft tapping, or gentle rolling of her clioris between your fingers. You can gradually increase your speed as she becomes more aroused, but you need to maintain a steady rhythm..

The Slide

Once you have made sure that she is wet, place your index and middle finger at the top of her vulva. Slowly slide your fingers down either side, until you reach her opening. Continue until your fingers are inserted, and then repeat the move. You can increase the speed as she becomes more aroused.

The Finger Plug

Slide a finger or two into her vagina and stay there. Look into her eyes. Let her luxuriate in the sensation of being filled, allowing her vaginal muscles to squeeze your fingers as tightly as she can. While you're in there, enjoy feeling the warmth and wetness of her vagina..

The Finger Roll

With this technique, your finger rolls back and forth like a log. Insert a finger or two straight up, then rotate your arm clockwise as far as it can go, and then rotate it counterclockwise as far as it goes. Vary the depth and speed of your rolls.

It goes without saying almost that women are different. Whenever you touch your lover in a different way, check that she likes it. If you can't tell from her sounds and body language, just ask her. She will appreciate your desire to please her. (For more about first-time lesbian sex, see my article 10 Tips for Great First-Time Lesbian Sex.)

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