5 Ways to Keep Lesbian Sex Exciting

Has your sex life gotten into a rut, or even begun to taper off? Don't worry; it's not "lesbian bed death." It's just what often happens to couples who have been together awhile. The sex lives of many couples begin to fall into a predictable pattern : You touch me here, I touch you there, you do me, I do you. It can start to get old, so you need to add variety, and change things up to keep sex hot between you. Here are five ways to do that:


Try different techniques.

Trying different techniques could mean trying something you never done together for the first time, or it could just mean using a new move or position. Repetition tends to desensitize us, both physically and mentally, so doing something new and different is necessary from time to time to keep sex something to look forward to.

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Try different sex toys.

Shopping for a new sex toy with your lover can be sexy fun all by itself, not the mention the fun of using itt on each other. Also, surprising your lover with a new toy can turn a dull night into a night to remember.

Try different locations.

Sex doesn't always have to take place in the bedroom. Try the shower, the kitchen, or the pool. Outdoor sex can be particularly exciting, especially if there is a chance (remote, hopefully) of being seen or caught.

Don't just focus on the orgasm.

There is a lot more to sex than orgasm. Spend time on all of your lover's body. Focus on the journey, not just the destination. Getting there should be half the fun.

Keep the romance alive.

The romance is part of what made sex fun and exciting to begin with. Keep your romance alive with candles, music, and sexy lingerie. Flirt with your lover the way you did when you first met. Tell her all the things you're going to do to her later. She'll be so turned on by the time you get to the bedroom (or wherever), that she rip your clothes off.

Keep your sex life fun and exciting takes a bit of work, but it's time and effort well-spent. A good sex life tends to lead to a good overall relationship. Of course, a boring on nonexistent sex life tends to lead to the opposite. Don't let that happen to your relationship.

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