Although lesbians have more orgasms than straight women, most of the fun of lesbian sex is in the journey, not the destination. One way to make the journey more fun for your lover is to explore more of the erogenous zones on her body. Erogenous zones are highly sensitive areas of the body that excite pleasurable sensations when touched or stimulated. Here are twelve erogenous zones that are often neglected during foreplay.
Scalp
Having someone touch your hair and scalp can be very pleasurable. It can also be arousing. Try playing with your lover's hair, massaging her scalp, and running your fingernails across it.
Mouth and Lips
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The lips are extremely sensitive, which explains why a good kiss can feel so incredible. Increase the sensation by alternating between soft, sensual kisses and a deep passionate ones.
Nape of the Neck
The nape and back of the neck have so many nerve endings that a light touch is all you need to drive your lover wild. Lightly run the tips of your fingers up and down your lover's neck as you kiss. To heat things up even more, instead of kissing her on the lips, focus on her neck..
Inner Arms and Armpits
The inner arms are extremely sensitive because of the thin skin in the area, and as weird as it seems the armpits are full of nerve endings too. The inner arms can be stimulated by licking and nibbling but for best effect, try tracing your fingers down from armpit to elbow and back again.
Breasts and Nipples
Nipple stimulation activates the same part of the brain activated by clitoral, vaginal, and cervical stimulation. This creates a direct connection between the nipples and the genitals, which is why some women can have an orgasm through nipple stimulation alone. Spend some time slowly exploring with your fingers, cheek, mouth, tongue, and lips the entire breast. Be sure not to neglect the underboob. The skin there is super sensitive and receptive to stimulation
Stomach
The part of the stomach between the belly button and pelvis in particular is a sensitive erogenous zone. With the right touch, you can actually stimulate the G-spot from the outside. Gentle stimulation also promotes blood flow to other erogenous zones."
Upper and Lower Back
The back, especially the upper back, tends to be a place that stores tension, so a sensual back massage can not only relax your lover, but also help turn her on. To keep heating things up, move the massage further south. The area where the lower back and the butt meet is highly sensitive.
Butt
A firm hand on the butt can feel delicious. Grab your lover's butt cheeks when you’re kissing, or spank her if she likes a bit of erotic pain. The underside of the butt where the thigh turns into the butt is a nerve-rich area, too. You can trace one finger along it, or try light kisses or licks" and then work their way to the vulva.
Behind the Knees
The soft spot behind the knee is another nerve-rich area tht is not often touched. Try gently touching your lover behind the knees while she stands in front of you, or massage her there, alternating between deep pressure and light stroking..
Pubic Mound
The area above the pubic bone can be an hot spot when stimulated. The pubic mound is connected to the genitals and sexual response due to sensitive nerve endings and glands that secrete pheromones, natural body scent, and sweat. Try kissing and licking or a light massage.
Inner Thighs
The skin of the inner thighs is packed with nerve endings, which means it's extra sensitive to your nibbles, nips, and licks. If you really want to kick it up a notch, kiss and lick your way up one thigh almost to the vulva, and then move to the other thigh and do the same thing.
Feet
Manywomen are surprised to find that foot stimulation can actually be a real turn on! Try massaging your lover's feet, using your thumbs to rub upward in a circular motion. Repeat this kneading motion as you move slowly down the length of her foot, then move back up again all the way to the toes.
Did you find any erogenous zones that you or your lover have been ignoring or neglecting? Women vary in how sensitive they are in the same areas, but make no mistake, these are highly sensitive areas. The only way to know if they are hot spots for you and your lover is to try them out.
My book Lesbian Sex Secrets: How to Have Amazing Sex With Another Woman aims to help bi-curious, bisexual, and lesbian women take their sex lives to another level. To give your lover the best sex she’s ever had, starting tonight, click here!
Scalp
Having someone touch your hair and scalp can be very pleasurable. It can also be arousing. Try playing with your lover's hair, massaging her scalp, and running your fingernails across it.
Mouth and Lips
.
The lips are extremely sensitive, which explains why a good kiss can feel so incredible. Increase the sensation by alternating between soft, sensual kisses and a deep passionate ones.
Nape of the Neck
The nape and back of the neck have so many nerve endings that a light touch is all you need to drive your lover wild. Lightly run the tips of your fingers up and down your lover's neck as you kiss. To heat things up even more, instead of kissing her on the lips, focus on her neck..
Inner Arms and Armpits
The inner arms are extremely sensitive because of the thin skin in the area, and as weird as it seems the armpits are full of nerve endings too. The inner arms can be stimulated by licking and nibbling but for best effect, try tracing your fingers down from armpit to elbow and back again.
Breasts and Nipples
Nipple stimulation activates the same part of the brain activated by clitoral, vaginal, and cervical stimulation. This creates a direct connection between the nipples and the genitals, which is why some women can have an orgasm through nipple stimulation alone. Spend some time slowly exploring with your fingers, cheek, mouth, tongue, and lips the entire breast. Be sure not to neglect the underboob. The skin there is super sensitive and receptive to stimulation
Stomach
The part of the stomach between the belly button and pelvis in particular is a sensitive erogenous zone. With the right touch, you can actually stimulate the G-spot from the outside. Gentle stimulation also promotes blood flow to other erogenous zones."
Upper and Lower Back
The back, especially the upper back, tends to be a place that stores tension, so a sensual back massage can not only relax your lover, but also help turn her on. To keep heating things up, move the massage further south. The area where the lower back and the butt meet is highly sensitive.
Butt
A firm hand on the butt can feel delicious. Grab your lover's butt cheeks when you’re kissing, or spank her if she likes a bit of erotic pain. The underside of the butt where the thigh turns into the butt is a nerve-rich area, too. You can trace one finger along it, or try light kisses or licks" and then work their way to the vulva.
Behind the Knees
The soft spot behind the knee is another nerve-rich area tht is not often touched. Try gently touching your lover behind the knees while she stands in front of you, or massage her there, alternating between deep pressure and light stroking..
Pubic Mound
The area above the pubic bone can be an hot spot when stimulated. The pubic mound is connected to the genitals and sexual response due to sensitive nerve endings and glands that secrete pheromones, natural body scent, and sweat. Try kissing and licking or a light massage.
Inner Thighs
The skin of the inner thighs is packed with nerve endings, which means it's extra sensitive to your nibbles, nips, and licks. If you really want to kick it up a notch, kiss and lick your way up one thigh almost to the vulva, and then move to the other thigh and do the same thing.
Feet
Manywomen are surprised to find that foot stimulation can actually be a real turn on! Try massaging your lover's feet, using your thumbs to rub upward in a circular motion. Repeat this kneading motion as you move slowly down the length of her foot, then move back up again all the way to the toes.
Did you find any erogenous zones that you or your lover have been ignoring or neglecting? Women vary in how sensitive they are in the same areas, but make no mistake, these are highly sensitive areas. The only way to know if they are hot spots for you and your lover is to try them out.
My book Lesbian Sex Secrets: How to Have Amazing Sex With Another Woman aims to help bi-curious, bisexual, and lesbian women take their sex lives to another level. To give your lover the best sex she’s ever had, starting tonight, click here!
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