10 Signs That Another Woman Is Attracted to You

Do you feel that a female friend is attracted to you? You could be right - or wrong. Maybe you're straight and don't want to accidentally lead her on, or maybe you're bisexual or lesbian but don't want embarrass her (or yourself) if it turns out she's straight. Without coming right out and asking, is there any way to be sure? These ten signs should help you make up your mind about whether your female friend is attracted to you. If she displays more than half of these, she probably wants to be more than just friends.

1) She pays you lots of compliments.

Although it’s normal for women to compliment each other, when a woman constantly compliments another woman, especially on her appearance, then obviously she has a crush. Think about it, when you like someone, aren't you alway telling them how amazing they are?

2) She stays close by.

Female friends may spend a lot of time together, but they also spend time apart. They aren’t anxious when they’re at a party talking to different people. If a woman is unable to leave the side of another woman, she wants to be more than a friend.

3) You have all her attention.

Although people may come in and out of the conversation, she stays focused on you. You’ll notice this during parties where most people socialize with other guests, but she doesn’t really talk to anyone else but you.

4) She remembers all the small things.

When you have a crush on someone, you remember every little thing they say because you actually care. If you care, you remember. If she remembers those small things, she could just be a good friend, or she could have feelings for you.

5) She laughs at everything.

People usually laugh more at the jokes of people they’re attracted to. You could just be hilarious, but if she’s laughing while rubbing your arm and looking into your eyes, it's probably more than that.

6) She seems awkward and nervous around you.

When you really like someone, you're often nervous and tongue-tied. If she’s cool, calm, and collected around men but awkward and nervous when she’s around you, she’s probably not as into men as much as she wants people to believe.

7) She gets touchy-feely with you.

It’s normal to touch your friends when you’re talking to them. Maybe you touch their arms when you’re laughing, but your touch only lingers on people you’re attracted to. If she rubs your arm or strokes your hair, she would probably like to touch you elsewhere, too.

8) She's flirtatious with you.

Women sometimes flirt with other women for fun without having any sexual intentions, but if there’s some serious flirting going on, it isn’t just for fun. Comments about how hot you are or sexual innuendos are not the typical for most female friends.

9) She brings up your sexual preferences.

Have you ever asked a female friend whether she preferred men, women, or both? Probably not. It;s just not something you would bring up unless you were interested in her sexually.

10) You just feel it.

If you’re a woman, and are trying to figure out if your female friend is attracted to you, you already feel that she is. It’s time to listen to your intuition. Usually, you can tell when someone is into you, and you can tell when they’re not. Sometimes, your ego or wishful thinking comes into play and tries to distort your perception, but at the end of the day, you can usually tell.

If you decide that your friend is into you, what's next? It depends. If you're bisexual or lesbian and you're attracted to her, go for it. If you're straight, be careful not to give her the wrong idea and try to avoid situations where she might be tempted to make a pass.

But what if you're bi-curious? Do you want to keep your attraction to other women just a fantasy, or take the opportunity to satisfy your bi-curiosity with your friend? Decisions, decisions.

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