Fingering is the best lesbian sex activity but because it is, it's also done a lot. That means it's important to change things up from time to time. Even something as enjoyable as fingering can become a bit boring if it's done the same way all the time. The following five moves are not your grandmother's fingering techniques, so you should find something that you haven't tried before among them.
1) Stroking Her Labia
Although the labia are not nearly as sensitive as the clitoris, there are a lot of enjoyable ways you can pleasure them. Slowly rubbing them up and down can bring your lover close to orgasm without her climaxing, so it makes for great foreplay. You can also use this technique after she has climaxed until her clitoris has calmed down and is not too sensitive for direct stimulation. Using some lube, either her own natural lubrication or a sexual lubricant will make stroking her labia feel even more pleasurable for her.
2) 4 Finger Fun
All you do in the 4 Finger Fun technique is rub your four fingers down over her clioris, labia, and vagina in a circular motion. Using her lube on your fingers will make it much wetter, slippier, and satisfying for your lover. Make sure to try varying your technique to see what feels best whether it’s how big your circles are to how much pressure you apply to how many fingers you use .(Your lover may prefer two or three fingers to four.)
3) Massaging/Squeezing the Base of Her Clitoris
Massaging or squeezing the base of her clitoris is easy, just place your thumb and index finger on either side of her clitoris. Then press down and inwards gently so that you are squeezing the base of her cliorist between the folds of skin surrounding it. Be sure not to squeeze the exposed part of her clitoris.
Start off with gentle pressure and see how she responds. Then increase or decrease the amount of pressure you use based on her reaction. From there on, it’s just a simple matter of playing around with her clitoris between the folds of skin, by rolling it between your thumb and index finger. You can also lightly move it up and down.
4) Fingering Her Inside and Out
For this technique, insert one to two fingers. If you’re using two fingers, your middle and ring are best for this technique. Then you can extend your index and pinky finger. Instead of keeping your arm straight, you will curl your wrist back toward your lover's body. When you do this, you can grind the heel of your hand against her clitoris for increased stimulation. If you have two fingers inside her, you can use your thumb to rub her clitoris.
5) Stroking Her U Spot
The U Spot is the area just above her urethra and to the sides It might as well be called the "secret spot" since practically no one has even heard of it. To stimulate the U Spot, use a lubed finger to gently stroke it. Extending your finger up to her clitoris as you stroke will help to increase the amount of pleasurable stimulation you give her.
Boring sex often eventually leads to no sex. Learning new sex techniques can help keep your love life fresh and exciting, and that will help keep your relationship fresh and exciting as well. When the sex is good, the relationship tends to be good as well..
My book Lesbian Sex Secrets: How to Have Amazing Sex With Another Woman aims to help bi-curious, bisexual, and lesbian women take their sex lives to another level. To give your lover the best sex she’s ever had, starting tonight, click here!
1) Stroking Her Labia
Although the labia are not nearly as sensitive as the clitoris, there are a lot of enjoyable ways you can pleasure them. Slowly rubbing them up and down can bring your lover close to orgasm without her climaxing, so it makes for great foreplay. You can also use this technique after she has climaxed until her clitoris has calmed down and is not too sensitive for direct stimulation. Using some lube, either her own natural lubrication or a sexual lubricant will make stroking her labia feel even more pleasurable for her.
2) 4 Finger Fun
All you do in the 4 Finger Fun technique is rub your four fingers down over her clioris, labia, and vagina in a circular motion. Using her lube on your fingers will make it much wetter, slippier, and satisfying for your lover. Make sure to try varying your technique to see what feels best whether it’s how big your circles are to how much pressure you apply to how many fingers you use .(Your lover may prefer two or three fingers to four.)
3) Massaging/Squeezing the Base of Her Clitoris
Massaging or squeezing the base of her clitoris is easy, just place your thumb and index finger on either side of her clitoris. Then press down and inwards gently so that you are squeezing the base of her cliorist between the folds of skin surrounding it. Be sure not to squeeze the exposed part of her clitoris.
Start off with gentle pressure and see how she responds. Then increase or decrease the amount of pressure you use based on her reaction. From there on, it’s just a simple matter of playing around with her clitoris between the folds of skin, by rolling it between your thumb and index finger. You can also lightly move it up and down.
4) Fingering Her Inside and Out
For this technique, insert one to two fingers. If you’re using two fingers, your middle and ring are best for this technique. Then you can extend your index and pinky finger. Instead of keeping your arm straight, you will curl your wrist back toward your lover's body. When you do this, you can grind the heel of your hand against her clitoris for increased stimulation. If you have two fingers inside her, you can use your thumb to rub her clitoris.
5) Stroking Her U Spot
The U Spot is the area just above her urethra and to the sides It might as well be called the "secret spot" since practically no one has even heard of it. To stimulate the U Spot, use a lubed finger to gently stroke it. Extending your finger up to her clitoris as you stroke will help to increase the amount of pleasurable stimulation you give her.
Boring sex often eventually leads to no sex. Learning new sex techniques can help keep your love life fresh and exciting, and that will help keep your relationship fresh and exciting as well. When the sex is good, the relationship tends to be good as well..
My book Lesbian Sex Secrets: How to Have Amazing Sex With Another Woman aims to help bi-curious, bisexual, and lesbian women take their sex lives to another level. To give your lover the best sex she’s ever had, starting tonight, click here!
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