One of the most fun aspects of sex is creating anticipation and building sexual tension. Spending plenty of time kissing, hugging, and caressing your lover helps do that, of course, but even when you are both ready to "head south," it's still a good idea to take your time getting there. The more turned on your lover is, the more responsive she will be to your desires. These two hot ways to warm up your lover will take the anticipation and sexual tension you've created to the next level.
Fingering is a term meaning the manual manipulation of the clitoris, vulva, vagina, or anus for the purpose of sexual arousal and stimulation. Fingering can be the entire sexual encounter, or it may be part of foreplay. To “finger yourself” is to masturbate with your hand. Fingering can be done outside the vagina only, inside the vagina, or around and inside the anus.
A sensual breast massage is a wonderful way to nurture and pleasure your lover. This breast massage awakens sensation and makes the breasts and nipples more sensitive to sexual stimulation and pleasure. Some women who have never enjoyed breast play in the past discover new pleasure through breast massage, and begin enjoying their breasts more fully as an erogenous zone.
Many women find oral sex to be the most satisfying sexual act. Indeed, a great number of women report that it is the only way they can achieve orgasm. The mouth can create a uniquely intense range of sensations because the tongue can manipulate the vagina and the clitoris in a variety of ways. Cunnilingus can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina, and usually involves direct stimulation of the clitoris. Here are five direct clitoral stimulation techniques to try: