1) Circles over the clitoral hood
Since direct clitoral stimulation can be uncomfortable at first, this technique makes circles around the clitoris over the clitoral hood to get the clitoris warmed up and ready for more direct stimulation. Start by making circles with your middle finger or your thumb over the hood around the clitoris. If she’s not wet use a sexual lubricant.
2) The clitoral slide
Once you have spent some time rubbing the clitoral hood and warming up the clitoris, you can apply a bit more direct stimulation with the clitoral slide. Separate your lover's lips a bit to increase the sensation and tap your middle finger or thumb over her clitoris, and then slowly slide the entire length of your finger, keeping constant contact with the clitoris. Slide your finger up and down, and then side to side. Start sliding your finger lowly and gently. Experiment with different directions, but nce you find one that’s getting her off, stick with that. Increase the speed and intensity of the rub until she climaxes.
3) Circles over the clitoral head
Once your lover is very aroused, tap your middle finger or your thumb over her clitoris and create small circles with your finger. Start slowly, applying light pressure, and then increase the speed and intensity as she gets close to climax. Don’t stop the movement until she orgasms.
4) “Jilling off” the clitoris
Once your lover is really wet and you have stimulated her clitoris enough that it can handle direct contact, separate her lips pushing up gently on the mons pubis to expose the clitoris. Use your index finger and tuumb to gently grasp the clitoral shaft and massage it up and down in steady rhythmic motions. Keep your fingers on the shaft and don’t pull the clitoral hood too far back. If using your index finger and your thumb isn't working, try using your index and middle finger to hold the clitoral shaft in between and apply just enough pressure to massage it up and down.
5) Turning on the clitoris
This is an alternative to jilling the clitoris. If grasping the clitoral shaft with your fingers is difficult for you to do, you can use your fingertips or knuckles and instead of pumping the shaft you can turn it side to side like a key in a lock. Find a rhythm and don’t try to go too hard or too fast. If she’s able to handle the direct stimulation, this move will definitely give yourlover an awesome clitoral orgasm! After she has a clitoral orgasm, her clitoris will be very sensitive making it hard to have another orgasm here, so it is time for you to move to thevagina.
6) Exploring fingers
Use your index and/or your middle finger to enter your lover's vagina. Make sure your fingers are wet. Star with one finger and add another one later if she wants. Don’t insert your fingers all the way in right away. Instead, work your way inside of her. Start by inserting only 1/2 inch of your finger and stimulate the outer ring of her vaginal canal by going in and out, in circles, and twisting.. Then, go further inside keeping your finger straight and touch the upper wall of her vagina canal. Go in and out and twist your finger.
7) Going for the G-spot
Put about two inches of your finger(s) inside of your lover's vagina and feel for a dime-size bean shaped spot of rough, protuberant tissue. This is her G-spot. Next, bend your finger(s) and make a “come hither” movement pressing the top of her vagina to stimulate the G-spot. The G-spot is responsible for triggering intense orgasms - sometimes including squirting - and fingers are the easiest way to directly stimulate it
8) Simultaneous stimulation
While having your middle finger stimulating your lover's G-spot, stimulate her clitoris with your thumb at the same time. This will drive her crazy, but you can take it to another level. The outer part of the anus is also packed with nerve endings, so even just touching, lightly pressing, or gently going in and out about an inch or so, will give your lover a lot of pleasure. While stimulating her G-spot with your middle finger and her clitoris with your thumb, do some anal play with your index finger and blow her mind with this combination of pleasurable sensations! When you are doing this triple-combo, make sure that you are using plenty of lube on the anal area.
Of course, you can mix and match these or any other fingering techniques as you please as long as you still go from indirect to direct clitoral stimulation of the clitoris. Fingering is the best lesbian sex activity. If you don't already agree, these eight techniques could change your mind.
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