Cup her breasts.
Place the palm of your hand in a semi-closed position directly on the bottom of her breast. Lift slightly in an upward motion. With smaller breasts, push only slightly upward. Move your hand slightly open and closed. You can also rub the skin lightly. Be aware of your lover's response. Lighten your touch if she shows any signs of discomfort.
Squeeze her breasts.
If your lover is receptive, begin applying more pressure in your squeezing motion and upward push of her breast Do not press too hard at first. Gently massage her breasts in circular fashion with your hands and then squeeze them harder. Watch her reaction to know if you should intensify the pressure or keep it the same.
Plump her nipples.
Place your thumb and index finger on either side of her nipple. Gently squeeze at first, and then slowly apply more pressure. Once the nipple swells slightly, stop the squeezing action unless your lover wants more.
Tug her nipples.
Gentle tugging can create a pleasurable sensation, but you have to be careful of what you’re doing. Do it softly and gently because pulling too hard because that can be painful.
Use your mouth.
The nipple is quite sensitive so if you use your fingers too much, it can actually begin to get irritating, so use your mouth on her nipples. Pull on them with your lips. Wrap your tongue around them. Pay attention to her response and proceed accordingly. Too much intensity can leave her feeling sore and turned off. Switching between mouth and hands is usually the best approach.
Many women wish their lovers paid more attention to their breasts during lovemaking, so take your time as long as your lover seems to enjoy what you're doing. Eventually you will create your own breast fondling techniques based on what she likes. When that happens, she may never want you to stop.
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